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Cindy La Ferle's avatar

A red flag on this one, for sure. I think the friend's message, ending in "You take care", was intended to end the relationship. And the fact that they said they were going through something "personal" sounded like a subtle request to be left alone. I'd back off and focus on other friendships. Just my opinion.

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Bette's avatar

IMO, Confused should assume the other party is married and has come to their senses, and should let the online "friendship" go. It sounds like it was a fun dalliance based on deception. As you rightly pointed out, Confused actually knows nothing about the other person, beyond what they have carefully curated and chosen to share.

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