I agree with all the suggestions listed by Irene and Sheryl. But I'd also reconsider these friendships and, if you can be honest with them, ask them what's really going on. I'd be honest and tell them you feel hurt and puzzled. But whatever happens, I hope you celebrate your 50th in ways that make you happy. Truly a milestone!
Yes, Cindy. If she can't be honest with them, are they really close friends?
I agree with all the suggestions listed by Irene and Sheryl. But I'd also reconsider these friendships and, if you can be honest with them, ask them what's really going on. I'd be honest and tell them you feel hurt and puzzled. But whatever happens, I hope you celebrate your 50th in ways that make you happy. Truly a milestone!