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Kristin Cartwright's avatar

Enjoyed this post and admire Becca for writing about what seems like a scenario many face when jobs/life stage/circumstances change. There is no shame in not having enough friends and it takes time, effort and perseverance.

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Bette's avatar

Becca is absolutely not alone! After a peripatetic career in a field that was 90% male, my friends and colleagues are scattered around the country. And guess what? Most of these guys are not interested in sustaining a friendship after retirement. This is probably my greatest disappointment, and also my greatest personal failure -- in that I did not realize I wasn't cultivating true friendships to sustain me in my later years. Now, after retiring during the pandemic and moving to a new city, I find myself without friends. I am disappointed in my former colleagues -- and in myself, for not knowing!

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